结婚8年,分床7年:幸福的家庭,从不把孩子放在第一位

百姓        2019-08-02   来源:小豆子自媒体

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 Premier Li Keqiang (C), together with World Bank Group (WBG) President Jim Yong Kim (3rd L), International Monetary Fund (IMF) Managing Director Christine Lagarde (3rd R), World Trade Organization (WTO) Director-General Roberto Azevedo (2nd L), Organization for Economic Cooperation and Development (OECD) Secretary-General Angel Gurria (2nd R), Financial Stability Board (FSB) Chairman Mark Carney (1st L) and International Labor Organization (ILO) Deputy Director-General Deborah Greenfield (1st R), poses for a group photo before the third "1+6" Roundtable in Beijing, capital of China, on Nov. 6, 2018. (Xinhua/Pang Xinglei)

BEIJING, Nov. 6 (Xinhua) -- China will firmly adhere to opening-up and the principle of multilateralism to push for the in-depth development of globalizatio

Chinese Premier Li Keqiang, also a member of the Standing Committee of the Political Bureau of the Communist Party of China (CPC) Central Committee, presides over a symposium where he hears views and recommendations made by scholars and entrepreneurs on a draft version of the government work report in Beijing, capital of China, Jan. 15, 2019. Han Zheng, a member of the Standing Committee of the Political Bureau of the CPC Central Committee and vice premier, attended the symposium. (Xinhua/Rao Aimin)

BEIJING, Jan. 16 (Xinhua) -- China will continue to innovate and improve its macro-control policies to offset external uncertainties and strive to keep economic growth within a reasonable range, Premier Li Keqiang said.

Li made the remarks when presiding over a symposium held Tuesday, where he heard views and recommendations made by scholars and entrepreneurs on a draft version of the government work report.

Li, a member of the Standing Committee of the Political Bureau of the Communist Party of China (CPC) Central Committee, said the country will speed up the transformation of its development model, further deepen reform and opening up, and promote high-quality development.

Han Zheng, a member of the Standing Committee of the Political Bureau of the CPC Central Committee and vice premier, attended the symposium.

Li stressed the importance of a loose and fair business environment and support for enterprises, especially private and small ones, calling for countering downward pressure with greater market vitality.

Inclusive and structural tax and fee cuts will be better implemented, and more will be done to address the financing difficulties of market entities, he said.

Li also called for stimulating greater internal impetus to growth by encouraging innovation and the healthy development of new industries and businesses, which will be a major boost to employment.

Investment in public services and infrastructure will be increased in a targeted, timely and reasonable manner, and there will be greater support to expanding domestic consumption to unlock the vast potential of the domestic market, Li said.

n, Chinese Premier Li Keqiang said on Tuesday.

Li made the remarks when holding the third "1+6" Roundtable with leaders of major international economic and financial institutions in Beijing.

When talking about the current global economic situation, Premier Li said the world has come at a cross road and faces a historical choice.

"We believe multilateralism is the only way to achieve prosperity and inclusive growth, and the trend of globalization should not be reversed," he said.

He also said that China is willing to strengthen communication and consultation with all parties to accommodate the interests of countries of different development stages and groups of different income levels.

China firmly supports multilateralism and opposes unilateralism and protectionism, and will work with other countries to promote economic globalization toward a more open, inclusive, universally beneficial, balanced and win-win direction, and jointly build an open world economy, Li said.

Full Text: Joint Press Release of the Third "1+6" Roundtable


幸福的家庭都是先爱爱人,再爱孩子                                                                                       ---  女王说


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因为孩子上学,两夫妻居然决定分居12年?

 

我见过这样一家三口。原本他们都生活在北京,但孩子到了上小学的年纪,因为没有北京户口,考虑到孩子将来高考的问题,妈妈和孩子搬到了天津上学,爸爸一个人留在北京打拼。


我问这位妈妈:「这样的两地分居要什么时候才能结束?」

她无奈地说:「恐怕要等到孩子高考完吧!」


从小学到高考完,为了孩子,两夫妻决定分居12年,想想都觉得恐怖!

 


和这位妈妈一样,为了孩子而牺牲彼此的父母还有很多。每一位父母都深爱着自己的孩子,然而有时,这样的爱却在不知不觉中超越了夫妻情感。

 

一次,在和朋友闲聊中得知,她已经和老公分房睡7年了。


我觉得不可思议:「你们才结婚8年呀,怎么会分居7年?」

朋友无奈地告诉我,开始是因为照看孩子方便,又怕影响老公休息。后来时间长了,就回不去了。





Chinese Premier Li Keqiang, also a member of the Standing Committee of the Political Bureau of the Communist Party of China (CPC) Central Committee, presides over a symposium where he hears views and recommendations made by scholars and entrepreneurs on a draft version of the government work report in Beijing, capital of China, Jan. 15, 2019. Han Zheng, a member of the Standing Committee of the Political Bureau of the CPC Central Committee and vice premier, attended the symposium. (Xinhua/Rao Aimin)

BEIJING, Jan. 16 (Xinhua) -- China will continue to innovate and improve its macro-control policies to offset external uncertainties and strive to keep economic growth within a reasonable range, Premier Li Keqiang said.

Li made the remarks when presiding over a symposium held Tuesday, where he heard views and recommendations made by scholars and entrepreneurs on a draft version of the government work report.

Li, a member of the Standing Committee of the Political Bureau of the Communist Party of China (CPC) Central Committee, said the country will speed up the transformation of its development model, further deepen reform and opening up, and promote high-quality development.

Han Zheng, a member of the Standing Committee of the Political Bureau of the CPC Central Committee and vice premier, attended the symposium.

Li stressed the importance of a loose and fair business environment and support for enterprises, especially private and small ones, calling for countering downward pressure with greater market vitality.

Inclusive and structural tax and fee cuts will be better implemented, and more will be done to address the financing difficulties of market entities, he said.

Li also called for stimulating greater internal impetus to growth by encouraging innovation and the healthy development of new industries and businesses, which will be a major boost to employment.

Investment in public services and infrastructure will be increased in a targeted, timely and reasonable manner, and there will be greater support to expanding domestic consumption to unlock the vast potential of the domestic market, Li said.








































































我想要的未来,是看得到安全感

欢欢思来想去还是决定分手了,她说,跟一个看不到未来的人在一起,感觉每天的生活的都像在走钢丝,颤颤巍巍的掉不下来,但是也走不到对岸。为了以后的幸福,长痛不如短痛,还是分开算了。

当时对于欢欢的分手,朋友中分成了两个阵营,一边说欢欢太现实,毕竟从大学就建立了深厚的感情基础,如今却败给了子虚乌有的安全感,说起来确实没有信服度。

还有支持欢欢的朋友说,女生喜欢一个人,就是想要嫁给一种安全感,如果白白浪费了女人最好的那几年,最后回想起来真的想给自己一巴掌。

欢欢和男朋友是一只脚踏进了婚礼殿堂,一只脚在门外徘徊。男朋友也有一份比较稳定的工作,他们在一个城市工作了几年,在出租房内度过了热恋的那几年,体验到了蜗居、拮据、争吵和甜蜜。


你失眠,我恰好陪你一起醒着。 

我们能遇见的,一定都有原因。所以每次遇到对的人,都像久别重逢。 

所以兜兜转转,我们都在等能一起欣赏世界的那个人.


读书多了,内心才不会决堤

你有没有想过这样一件事,你想去的地方,你喜欢的人,你向往的事物,都和你有着很远的距离,原因是什么。

因为你和读书之间的距离,就是你和你喜欢的事物之间的距离。离读书越远,自己就越浅薄。

就算不是为了钱,那就是增长自己的见识,不一定能大富大贵,但会拥有更多的选择。

我们都应该为自己谋一条后退的路,多一个方便的选择,去挥霍自己的青春。可以让你拥有强大的气场,去面对各种流言蜚语,会给你一个虚拟的世界,保护你脆弱的翅膀,尽管是文字堆垒的城堡,但是会有安全感。

有过一段孤独的时间,每天早晨晚上,一个人在家面对四面白墙,捧着手机和电脑发呆,一度怀疑自己得了忧郁症。后来开始读书,一本书看了四五遍,再后来就养成了一种习惯,捧着书,就像捧着爱人的脸。

总之是为了更好的活着,活着赚钱,活着享受,我很俗,不为别的,只为自己。

俗人没什么不好,你的育儿指南不一定非要是高雅,不妨试试俗人回档,俗人不俗命,你可以拿给孩子看看,告诉他们,先懂俗,再懂雅。



读书多了,内心才不会决堤

你有没有想过这样一件事,你想去的地方,你喜欢的人,你向往的事物,都和你有着很远的距离,原因是什么。

因为你和读书之间的距离,就是你和你喜欢的事物之间的距离。离读书越远,自己就越浅薄。

就算不是为了钱,那就是增长自己的见识,不一定能大富大贵,但会拥有更多的选择。

我们都应该为自己谋一条后退的路,多一个方便的选择,去挥霍自己的青春。可以让你拥有强大的气场,去面对各种流言蜚语,会给你一个虚拟的世界,保护你脆弱的翅膀,尽管是文字堆垒的城堡,但是会有安全感。

有过一段孤独的时间,每天早晨晚上,一个人在家面对四面白墙,捧着手机和电脑发呆,一度怀疑自己得了忧郁症。后来开始读书,一本书看了四五遍,再后来就养成了一种习惯,捧着书,就像捧着爱人的脸。

总之是为了更好的活着,活着赚钱,活着享受,我很俗,不为别的,只为自己。

俗人没什么不好,你的育儿指南不一定非要是高雅,不妨试试俗人回档,俗人不俗命,你可以拿给孩子看看,告诉他们,先懂俗,再懂雅。

前两年还想着重新睡在一起,但回到一张床上的两个人总是各种挑毛病。你嫌我打呼噜,我嫌你抢被子,孩子更是哭喊着要妈妈,索性两人就一直分房睡了。

 

朋友说,自从孩子出生,两个人就再也没有回到二人世界了。



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